thoughts about someone you are meeting
If you
feel like someone is negatively judging some detail about you, try to shrug off
the thought. For example, if someone glances your news way and you immediately think
they are noticing some flaw. This is because you’ve convinced yourself that
your perceived flaw is so important that it’s the first thing people notice.
When you
have this thought, try shrugging it off as though it was a completely
ridiculous thought such as, “pigs can fly.” This is a reminder that your own
inner voice is not a reliable source on this issue.
find It’s not at all the voice
of reality because you’ve blown your own flaws far out of proportion.
Just as
it’s likely that you don’t have unkind thoughts about someone you are meeting,
the person you are meeting is highly unlikely to be having
house unkind thoughts
about you. Which leads to the next important step.
Stop to Consider Your Own First Thoughts Upon
Seeing or Meeting Someone New or Greeting Acquaintances
It’s very
likely that when you encounter another person, whether you know them or not.
Your first thoughts are not negative ones. In fact, as humans, we tend to dwell
on negative thoughts about ourselves. While we are much more generous with
others.
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